My Challenges With Men— Former Wife Of Ooni

<h4>My Challenges With Men<&sol;h4>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>OpenLife Nigeria<&sol;strong> reports that Queen Silekunola Naomi &comma; former wife of the Ooni of Ife&comma; Oba Adeyeye Enitan Ogunwusi &lpar;Ojaja 11&rpar;has opened up on the challenges of being a beautiful Queen and love advances from men&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;In an interview earlier published in Punch&comma; the Queen who recently clocked 30&comma; reveals how she wards off men<br &sol;>&NewLine;According to her&comma; men are naturally created to love beautiful women&period; She said&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em><strong>Early enough&comma; I took some measures even before I came into the limelight&comma; and some people started seeing them as excessive&comma; awkward and off&period; However&comma; those things I structured helped me&period; A pretty young girl&comma; it does not matter if you spit fire&comma; you walk into a space&comma; they don’t care if you are coming to minister&period; The first thing they are seeing is not what is coming out of you&comma; but what is outside of you&period; And would you blame a complete man&quest; Because once a man is complete&comma; he is attracted to anything beautiful&period; Would you blame him if he started making advances&quest; Those who are uncouth and ill-mannered will even want to take it by force&period;<&sol;strong><&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em><strong>I was always going in company with people&comma; especially family members&period; I had older siblings and I had my mum&period; Every time I went out to minister or see people&comma; you would never see me alone&period; It was like that and it was so difficult that people wondered&comma; &OpenCurlyQuote;Who’s going to marry her&quest;’ Because&comma; how are you going to approach me&quest; You’re never going to see me alone&period;<&sol;strong><&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em><strong>I always have someone&comma; and my phone is always on speed dial&period; So&comma; once I press it&comma; they will get me in a matter of seconds or minutes&comma; and you will also know that I am not alone even though we are together in this room alone&comma; there is somebody waiting outside&period;<&sol;strong><&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em><strong>So&comma; that was a kind of put-off for people who would have loved to do something&period; They don’t really find me that attractive&semi; they find me as&comma; &OpenCurlyQuote;This one must be old school&comma; why will she be going around with people&comma; why can’t she just walk alone&quest;’<&sol;strong><&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;