Real Reasons Our Love Failed – Sheggz, Former BBNaija Housemate Opens Up On Reality TV Star, Bella Okagbue

Real Reasons Our Love Failed

 

OpenLife News reports that former Big Brother Naija, BBNaija housemate, Segun Olusemo popularly known as Sheggz, has confirmed that his relationship with fellow reality star <strong>Bella Okagbue ended in January 2026.

In a statement shared on social media early Wednesday, Sheggz also addressed viral allegations of cheating and abuse, denying all claims.

Sheggz said he had kept silent out of respect for his family and to protect his private life, but decided to speak after attempts to damage his reputation.

“I have never spoken publicly on the internet out of respect for my family, and it simply isn’t my nature to do so.

“However, after four years of working hard to build my life and my reputation, I feel it is only fair to clarify my position rather than allow my name or character to be unfairly tarnished,” he wrote.

“For clarity, I did not cheat on Bella, and I have been single since January 2026. The relationship ended in January 2026.

“We made attempts to reconcile afterwards, but ultimately I came to the conclusion that there were issues of trust and respect that I could not overlook when considering marriage,”

The reality star strongly rejected allegations of abuse, describing himself as someone who values family, faith and integrity.

“I am a man who values family, friendship, integrity and my faith. I am a brother, a friend to many and most importantly, I know the values I stand for. I am not an abuser,” he stated.

Health Struggle And Loss Of Trust Cited As Reasons

Sheggz revealed that 2025 was a tough year for him as he battled health issues that kept him in and out of hospital.

“Much of 2025 was an extremely difficult period for me as I spent a significant amount of time in and out of hospital. I am genuinely grateful to be alive after everything I experienced.

“Following treatment and recovery in England, I returned to Nigeria in October 2025, where I became aware of information that caused me to question the honesty within our relationship,”

He said his decision to walk away was rooted in his belief that marriage must be built on trust, honesty, mutual respect and open communication.

He also disclosed how serious he was about the relationship:

“I genuinely wanted the relationship to work. I even went as far as purchasing a ring because I believed in the possibility of a future together,”

Appeal For Peace

Sheggz said he has no interest in dragging the breakup on social media and wants both families to move on with dignity.

“I have no desire for hostility or public back-and-forth. I simply want to move forward peacefully with dignity and respect for everyone involved.

“I wish Bella nothing but the best in life, and I hope we can all eventually move on with grace,” he concluded.