Don’t Waste Energy On Unfriendly In-Laws — Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde

OpenLife Nigeria reports that Nollywood superstar Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde spoke candidly on Morayo’s podcast about the challenges many couples face when marrying into families that may not immediately accept them.

Sharing her perspective, Omotola said;

“If the family you are marrying into doesn’t like you, try everything you possibly can to make them understand and like you. But there are some parents that won’t just give in no matter what you do.”

Her words resonated deeply with viewers, as they reflect a reality that many newlyweds quietly struggle with.

Omotola went further to give advice to young couples navigating the tricky dynamics of marriage and family approval. “My advice: it’s not worth it.

Marriage in itself is already an institution where you’re going to face a lot. It’s a lifetime journey; every step you’re going to need support, and if these people are not going to support you from the beginning, you’re going to have a very rough journey,” she explained.

Her insight emphasizes that the success of a marriage is often rooted in the support system a couple can count on, and when that foundation is shaky, the journey can become unnecessarily difficult.

The veteran actress concluded with a powerful reminder for young women and men entering marriage:

focus on your spouse and your shared journey, rather than trying to win over relatives who may never fully accept you.

Omotola’s candid reflections provide not just advice, but a reality check, highlighting that while love is essential, marriage is also about strategy, resilience, and knowing when to prioritize your own family first.